How to Cook Steel Cut Oats Wednesday, Oct 21 2009 

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There are a zillion good reasons to cook your family steel cut oats for breakfast!  A few:  Steel cut oats are less processed than regular oatmeal.  They are hearty, filling, and delicious.  They are super good for you.  And if you buy them in bulk, they are cheap!  (If you buy them in the little can at the grocery store, they are like gold.)

Here’s how I do it.

1.  The night before, soak 2 c. steel cut oats in 2 quarts water and 2 T. apple cider vinegar or lemon juice.  This breaks down the phytic acid (an anti-nutrient found in grains and legumes), making the nutrients more easily absorbed and the oats easier to digest.  It also cuts the cooking time by a bit.  This step isn’t essential, so if you forget to soak the oats it’s not the end of the world.  I try to do this though.

2.  In the morning…drain oats into a strainer and rinse very well to get rid of any sour taste from the vinegar or lemon juice.  Put them in a pot with 6 cups water.

If you did not soak the oats, use 8 cups water.

3.  Cook over medium heat for about 30 minutes or until oatmeal is thick and oats are tender.  You’ll want to stir it quite a bit at the end, to prevent sticking.

Let it cool a little.  Serve with raisins, honey, butter, milk, nuts, fruit, or whatever you like with oatmeal.  Yummy!!!

(I also like to add 2 chopped apples at the beginning.  Then when the oatmeal is done, I stir in some cinnamon and honey.  That’s the kids’ favorite!)

The Heart of the Home Thursday, Aug 20 2009 

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No time for a thoughtful post today; I’ll let someone else do the writing.  My younger sister, best friend, homemaker extraordinairre, and health food afficiando, Leah, has written a great post on ways to keep yourself inspired in the kitchen. It’s encouraged me…Hope it encourages you too!

Monthly Grocery Shopping Tuesday, Aug 18 2009 

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I’m gearing up for monthly shopping.  Doing it this way is fairly new to me.

I tried monthly shopping once before but I was not very organized and it was pretty much a disaster.  It’s time to give it another shot though–I just don’t have time for a weekly errand day any more, and I certainly don’t want to spend my precious weekend time with my husband at Wal-Mart.

I’m basically starting with a monthly menu and making a master grocery list from the menu.  I’m pulling ideas from a lot of smart people.  This particular system worked very well for me last month.  It only needed minor tweaking.  It was so nice to only have to shop weekly for produce, eggs, and milk.  I’m hoping it continues to be this worth it!

What grocery shopping system works for you?

Links to Love Sunday, Jul 26 2009 

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I’m pretty picky about which blogs I link to.   Mainly I want them to be balanced and encouraging.  There are lots of blogs that fit that criteria, but obviously I’m not familiar with all of them.  I’m going to add a little blog roll to my sidebar to provide easy access to some of these great blogs I’ve run across over time, places that furnish inspiration for frugal living, homemaking, and mothering.

Here are a few that I’m going to start with.

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Nesting Place~~Her motto is “It doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.”  Inspiration for simple, beautiful, frugal decorating!  Check out Best of the Nest.

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A Soft Place to Land~~More lovely, frugal decorating ideas.

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The Pleasures of Homemaking~~Just a beautiful blog.  I especially enjoyed this post: Making Lunch Special~~Great ideas for making at-home meals as special and fun as eating out…a frugal alternative.

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Pretty Organized Palace~~FAB organizing ideas from a mom of 6!

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Balancing Beauty and Bedlam~~Lots of great frugal tips and coupon links, but her Frugal Fashionista posts are invaluable.

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4 Reluctant Entertainers~~Lovely, do-able hospitality tips…Sandy’s gentle encouragement has freed me to relax and enjoy opening my home to others even more than I already did.

Fifteen Minutes! Tuesday, Oct 21 2008 

Lately I’ve felt a bit overwhelmed. OK, I always feel a little overwhelmed, but lately it’s been more intense than usual. (Hence, no blogging.) My goal for 2008 has been to streamline, and while I’ve gone a long way toward that end, there’s still a lot to do.

I hopped over to Flylady’s web site. Flylady really helped me get my home in order when I was a new mom. Her (free) email system doesn’t work for me right now, but I definitely needed a refresher on basic principles.

Two of Flylady’s basic tenets are “You can do anything for 15 minutes,” and “My timer is my best friend.”

So for the past couple days I’ve been using my timer. Fifteen minutes in the kitchen, fifteen minutes of tidying, fifteen minutes doing something with one of the kids. (Flylady recommends a 15 minute break every hour, but I really have difficulty implementing this.) I find that the 15 minute limit helps me get more done in a short amount of time and it keeps my day more balanced. Instead of getting sidetracked with all there is in one area, I’m doing a little in each one till they are all done. I still have plenty that’s not completed, but I’m feeling a little relief from the frustration. I have to remind myself of another of Flylady’s sayings: “Baby steps!”

P.S. Apparently I can blog for 15 minutes too!

Link Love Thursday, Oct 9 2008 

My sweet friend Erica gave Reviving Motherhood the Brilliante Weblog Award awhile back–and I haven’t yet acknowledged it. Thanks so much, Erica!

The rules are that you tag 7 other blogs with the award. I’m going to make up my own rules since I’m kind of rebellious like that. (Or something.) I can’t say I’m technically passing on the award, but I do want to share links to some really helpful and inspiring places. Since I can’t seem to find time to write lately, maybe this will provide some reading material for you!

1. Crafty Crow is a “children’s craft collective”. In other words, it’s a center for all kinds of simple crafts for kids, from all over the internet. How nice to have someone else do the collecting for you, yes?!

2. You might recognize Jan Brett’s name from her children’s books. She has an amazing and generous web site chock full of coloring pages, alphabet sheets, and more. There are probably hundreds of free printable pages. And cute!

3. Recently, Simple Mom wrote a series called How To Be Disorganized and Unproductive at Home. Brilliant. Lots of great ideas for streamlining and making the most of your time and energy.

4. I love to read 4 Reluctant Entertainers, which is essentially a blog about Christian hospitality. Sandy offers an abundance of ideas, recipes, and encouragement to share your home with others. Plus, it’s a treat for the eyes. Good stuff.

5. If you need a laugh and you’re one of the 3 people in the universe who does not read Confessions of a Pioneer Woman, run, don’t walk there–now. Oh my. I laugh till I cry.

6. This list wouldn’t be complete without recommending my husband’s blog, The Disciple’s Journey. What can I say? It’s great. I just wish he’d write more often. (For that matter, I should be writing more often…)

7. I absolutely love the art of Belle and Boo. Beyond cute. If I was shelling out cash for art (especially for my girls), I’d buy it here.

Frugal Decorating Thursday, Sep 18 2008 

If you’ve ever been to my house, I’m sure you’re laughing by now. I really should have enlisted the services of a guest blogger for this one. Or I could just say, “Watch Design on a Dime.” I’m about as qualified to write a post with “decorating” in the title as I am to write a post with the words “fitness,” “organization,” “spotless home,” or “gourmet cooking” in the title. In other words, not.

But I’ll give it a shot and show you some pictures of Silas’s room from our last house. (Here in the new house I haven’t really figured it out yet.) I ended up being pretty pleased with how it turned out, all things considered, and it was frugal.

He loves to sleep with his army sleeping bag, which is just fine, but it didn’t look very inviting, or very neat. I’ve been wanting to buy him a spread, but for now I simply asked, “What Do I Have in My Hand?” I dug around in the cedar chest, looking for something, anything, to put on his bed, and found this pretty afghan that Billy’s great-aunt made us when we got married. I had forgotten all about it. It was just right. No money spent.

The bed itself came from a garage sale. I am not sure; it might have even been free.

The big middle picture is a signed pen and ink print that we got at a garage sale. I got the other pictures from an outdated calendar I bummed off my brothers, and framed them in frames people had given us. Total cost for this little arrangement: $1.

These beautiful signed lab prints belong to Billy. I believe he got both of them as gifts. They went perfectly on the big wall opposite the bed.

This kid-sized gun rack came from a garage sale, too. I think Billy got it for $2 or $3.

The thing about “What do I have in my hand?” decorating is that you can’t be too much of a perfectionist. I think it boils down to contentment. Silas’ room does not look like a designer room, although if I had the time and went to the effort I could do that for a reasonable cost as well. But I’m happy with it the way it is. He is too, and that’s what matters. Thrifty decorating also means patience. Most of the time, if you want to save, you don’t just go out and buy the whole ensemble at once. You have to wait for those good deals to come along. But I don’t mind. I guess I’m strange, but it brings me a great deal of satisfaction to have made my little guy a cozy space so frugally.

What Do I Have in My Hand? Thursday, Sep 18 2008 

Many years ago I received a (now defunct) magazine for Christian women in which the female editor frequently encouraged us ladies to ask ourselves, “What do I have in my hand?” The idea was to be creative with what we had rather than feeling that we had to buy something new, or even new supplies to make something. While the magazine went down a sad road and eventually disappeared (as far as I know), the question stayed with me. I still often ask myself, “What do I have in my hand?”

Honestly, I don’t get out much. It’s not that I can’t; it’s just more practical not to. I don’t know when I’d have the time to get out more. And I love staying home. Going out with four small children is hard, and in this day and time, especially in an urban setting, a little dangerous. Also, it’s cheaper. So I’m home a lot. Consequently, I frequently find that I won’t be going to the store for a few more days, but I have a need or want at the moment. Maybe it’s a meal; maybe it’s a craft I want to make. Maybe I need a gift for someone, or a costume for my kids. Asking, “What do I have in my hand?” has saved me money—probably a lot of money.

I’ve always thought that I wasn’t a very creative person, but I find that the more I have to be, the more I am. Necessity is the mother of invention, you know. I also get wonderful, inspiring ideas from other bloggers. They have no idea.

Last year (or maybe longer ago than that…) a group of people around the nation learned to ask this question in a greater way than ever before. They joined a movement called Compact, committing to buy nothing new for one year, except for what they needed to live, like food. As I understand it, it wasn’t against the rules to shop for something you need, like a coat from Goodwill, the goal was just not to buy anything new. Each had different reasons–paying off student loans, for example.

Imagine the money you would save if you didn’t buy anything new for one year. While I don’t see my family going to that extreme any time soon, I admire Compact members and their example inspires me to waste less and ask, “What do I have in my hand?” In this way, I can help my family and steward well God’s gifts to me.

Daily Routines Friday, Jul 18 2008 

In the comments to this post, Angel asked about routine. I’m flattered that anyone thinks I have a routine, but I’m afraid I had to laugh–at myself. I’m good at putting routines on paper, but sticking to it–not so much. Although when I do, things go so much better. I grew up in a routine oriented home, but my life in recent years has been heavy on transition. I’m in better routines now than I’ve been for a long time. I know routines are essential for the home to run smoothly and kids thrive on structure and predictability. I know I did. So sticking to a plan is something I work on constantly. Since I don’t plan to move or have a baby this year (just did both those things) and I pray fervently that we won’t be struck by any surgeries or major illnesses any time soon, perhaps by the end of the year we’ll be in a good groove.

Here is my basic routine that works for me when I stick to it!!! This is just the bare bones basics, but it’s a guideline for what needs to be done.

Morning—Before 10

Quiet time (personal Bible reading and prayer)

Dress and comb everyone

Make beds/tidy rooms

Breakfast–hard boiled eggs and fruit or granola bars and fruit

Supper in crock pot

Bread in machine

1 load laundry

Mid-morning—10-12

Mid-morning snack-veggies & dip/nuts/goldfish/pb crackers/popcorn—outside!

2nd load laundry

Homeschool lessons

Lunch

PB&J or burritos+fruit, chips, and/or cookies

10 minute tidy

Story time, if possible!

Afternoon

Naps/quiet time

Finish school

2 loads laundry

Finish supper

Evening

10 minute tidy/clean rooms

Eat supper

Wash dishes

Thaw meat for next day

Lay out clothes for next day

Everyone bathe/brush teeth

How do you determine your daily routines? What works for you?

Question of the Week: Laundry Thursday, Jul 10 2008 

Laundry is on my mind since our 17-year-old washer and dryer both broke last week. Till the past few months, laundry has been my biggest homemaking challenge. I think I finally have a system that works. So, the question:

What’s your favorite laundry tip?

Here’s mine. It actually came from Melissa, our preschool director at First Baptist Church, and I’ve used it successfully ever since.

Each child has a basket on a shelf above the washer. When the clothes come out of the machine, they are immediately sorted into each child’s basket. When the baskets are full, the kids get to put their clothes away (theoretically–we just as often use out of the basket, but at least they are sorted).

This is my old system:

Now that I have four, I’ve had to modify it a bit.